James asks…I am looking for a good “SPA” to go to…Ilive in the Eastern part of the USA..so no desert stuff..and…..I need a quiet retreat….I smoke and will not be told to not as I am paying for this…should I stay here or asume that another place would garner more freedom in my own say of how I want this? It is more a mental break than anything. Thanks….please be kind, I am rather burnt out….Dr Ryder answers:SPA hmm lets see spa spa hmm nope ya got me !Jenny asks…gay question
